About Us

Who are we?

We’re Don’t Shoot the Messenger Cookies. The unapologetic cookie company that says what you’re thinking. Whether it’s “Sorry (but not really),” “You’re my favorite mistake,” or “You’re stronger than you know,” our cookies deliver the message with frosting and flair.

Why?

Because sometimes you just need a delicious way to say what words can’t. We believe in telling the truth — sweetly, sassily, and anonymously if you want to!

Our Story

Hi! I’m a stay at home mom of three beautiful children. Baking has been my creative outlet for nearly 5 years now and something I really fell in love with after having my daughter. It started as therapy, turned into a passion, and now it’s a business built from love, laughter, and lots of sugar. And honestly? This whole “Don’t Shoot the Messenger” idea was my husband’s brainchild over a year ago. Ever since he pitched it, I couldn’t get it out of my head. So I ran with it, developing sassy, sweet and sometimes savage messages you can actually eat. It’s been an adventure (and a LOT of cookies)

What we do

We hand decorate beautiful royal iced cookies with your fully custom text. Want to roast a friend? Apologize? Confess love? Encourage someone in a hard season? We’ve got you covered.

And yes, you can even send them anonymously or not.

Our Mission

To help people say it, one cookie at a time. No matter how sweet, savage, or sincere.